Sex in a person's life is an opportunity to experience and experience many pleasurable and unforgettable moments. It should be clear that good sex, filled with a variety of caresses and effective poses, can offer real pleasure. Do you want peace and harmony to reign in your family bed? Practice variety. After all, the more varied the sex, the more exciting the process, the more brilliant the result.
If, when going to bed, you decide to give your lover or mistress new experiences, perform anilingus. What is it? These are incredibly pleasant and deliciously intoxicating caresses that can fill your sex life with exciting new colors. True, getting started with anilingus is not always easy. After all, interesting sexual experiences are obtained through caresses of the anus. Ready to try? Then read on.
In modern society, as in ancient society, caresses of the anus are ambiguous. This is because from time immemorial, forms of sex that did not aim to conceive a child were considered sinful and immoral. Therefore, for many caresses of the anus - a forbidden fruit.
But not only cultural and social norms prevent the practice of anal caresses. Anyone who decides to make anilingus part of their sex life will first have to overcome internal disgust and fear. Indeed, for many, the anus is the dirtiest place on the human body. But believe me, the fight against your own complexes is worth the effort. By removing the limits from your head, you can expand the boundaries of pleasure.
Anilingus: taking care of the term
The word anilingus is derived from two Latin words: anus (anus) and lingo (licking). Erotic caresses of the buttocks, anus, that are performed with the tongue or lips to arouse or provide sexual satisfaction are called anilingus. Synonyms for this word are considered: rimming, anilinksiya.
Why do caresses of the anus cause a wave of pleasurable sensations and can sometimes lead to orgasm? This is because the anus, like the perineal area, is dotted with nerve endings. Stimulation of this erogenous zone brings vivid sexual experiences. Of course, the most pleasurable thing is to receive anilingus. But that does not mean that performing anilingus is unpleasant. Giving an intimate pleasure partner an unforgettable sexual experience is an exciting experience.
The anus is a highly sensitive erogenous zone in both women and men. Therefore, such caresses will please both lovers. Quite often, rimming becomes part of cunnilingus. Such an enhanced 'attack' of the female erogenous zones helps to warm a loved one's body to the highest boiling point, when penetration becomes a true salvation from sweet sexual torture.
However, when practising such a combination of caresses, it is worth remembering one rule: moving from caresses of the clitoris and vulva to caresses of the anus, you cannot go back. Otherwise, a bed partner may be rewarded with a variety of infectious problems (anus bacteria are not compatible with vaginal bacteria).
Ripping can be combined with oral sex. Many men are not averse to such sexual fun. Even if they are embarrassed to admit it.
Anilingus: where to start?
When planning to make anilingus a part of your sex life, it is worth understanding a few points. Not all people like it when they fondle the anus. At the same time, not everyone is ready, despite persuasion and requests from their partner, to give affection in the form of licking the anus.
Therefore, it is necessary to start introducing a new sexual practice with a conversation. Moreover, the more frank the dialogue, the fewer surprises and problems during sex. During the discussion, all preferences and limitations should be expressed. If there are no preferences, but you want to try, your partner is ready to support, feel free to experiment. All that remains is to study the technique of performing anilingus.
Each of the lovers must understand that anilingus is the usual type of caress, not at all immoral, somewhat similar to cunnilingus. In a modern society open to sexual experiments, interest in anal play is growing rapidly. According to data from an American research company, about 15% of the population has tried anal play once in their lives.
If you are interested in rimming, talk about it. The main thing in such a conversation is to choose the right time, choose the right words, talk about your desires and intentions in a calm and confident tone. Remember, the wrong approach can permanently reject your dream: anilingus.
You can start a conversation on the topic of sexual experiments in a simple everyday setting while watching a romantic film. Or in the bedroom, thinking about having sex. Invite your partner to try something new and different.
Are you afraid that your partner will not approve of your idea? Then offer to share sexual fantasies. Tell us about rimming as a sexual experiment you have been dreaming about for a long time. Many in anilingus are frightened by the fear of facing impurities in the anus. However, this fear is easy to dispel. All that is needed is to perform a series of cleaning and hygiene procedures.
If your partner refuses to participate in such an experiment, do not put pressure on him. Postpone the conversation. Do something you both enjoy.
- If you decide to try it, feel free to act. And in order for anilingus to cause a whirlwind of pleasant sensations in the body, it is necessary to prepare oneself for it. So, before anilingus it is necessary:
- cut nails - sharp claws can injure the sensitive skin of the anus;
- wash hands - so as not to carry the infection to the internal organs;
- shave hair near the anus - a hygienic procedure, thanks to which anal caresses will be as pleasant as possible for both partners;
- take an enema - to reduce the release of gas, a natural physiological process - a compulsory procedure if tongue penetration is involved;
- take a shower - to make sure you are clean and enjoy the strokes.
- After the preparatory procedures, it is necessary to distribute the roles. Some like to actively participate in anal caresses. Some are only passive. Some do not mind trying out both 'roles'.
- Compliance with the hygienic and medical components of anilingus is an opportunity to avoid health problems. Anilingus is considered not only one of the guaranteed ways to achieve sexual release, but also one of the most potentially dangerous:
- During such sexual practice, there is the possibility of transmitting diseases such as gonorrhoea, hepatitis A, B, C, HIV, diarrhoea, etc.
- The possibility of infection with parasites, Giardia, which can cause acute intestinal disorders.
- Alternating stimulation of the anus and vagina threatens to infect the female genital organs. This occurs due to the incompatibility of the intestinal micro-flora with the vaginal environment.
So that rimming, successful at first sight, does not turn into a series of problems, it is best to practice such caresses with a trusted partner. At the same time, anything with which you caress the anus may not be used to caress other holes, particularly the female uterus. Hands after stimulation should be washed thoroughly, condoms should be changed on the dildo, and the mouth after stimulation should be rinsed with a special agent. By following simple rules of hygiene, you will make your anilingus stunning.
Modern doctors also recommend with an experienced partner to perform rimming using special latex napkins: rubber dams. These napkins have a square shape and a pleasant aroma that repels the smell of latex. Use a napkin to protect your active partner's body from the penetration of various infections. After all, anus bacteria can cause inflammation not only in a woman's uterus, but also in the oral cavity. Of course, before anilingus, you can thoroughly clean the anus. But inflammation is also caused by viruses that 'live' in the stomach of a passive partner. As you can see, even engaging in this form of sex with a normal lover, there is the possibility of picking up an unpleasant sore.
Dental dams, rubber dams are important components of safe anilingus. You can buy such accessories in pharmacies. You can replace the latex napkin with a normal condom. It must be cut to a square.
To increase the comfort level during the rimming process, the intimate places can be lubricated with flavoured lubricant. Natural flavours will help overcome disgust. For example, a latex napkin used to protect against infection can be smeared with honey or sweet syrup. If you plan to have traditional sex after anal stimulation, carefully remove food remains from the surface of the intimate organs.
Anulingus Techniques
There are two main ways to stroke the anus:
- Slowly sliding the tongue along the perineum and the folds of the buttocks without directly touching the anus. A good option for beginners who are just learning rimming.
- Licking the anus - includes licking the opening of the anus, the entire perineum area. Very often, such caresses are combined with genital caresses. This method is equally effective on the intimate organs of men and women. Caressing the clitoris or penis is easy to switch to caressing the anus. At the height of sexual madness, you can bring your tongue in a circular motion around the anus. the faster, the stronger the sensation.
- Inserting the tongue into the hole: this method is practised to prepare the anus for penetration. It can act as an independent type of caress. In the process, the tongue is inserted into the posterior opening. Next, they perform movements that imitate the friction of the male member or simple stroking movements. Remember that it is not necessary to penetrate the tongue inside. After all, the main part of the sensitive receptors is on the edge.
- The vibrating movements of the tongue in the 'flight of the bumblebee' technique suggest varying degrees of impact on the anus. You can perform various figures: figure eights, zigzags. Believe me, not only your tongue will tremble, but also your partner's body under its caress!
The choice of the appropriate technique depends on the purpose of the stimulation: do you want to bring your partner into a sexual frenzy or simply arouse him before penetration.
The most comfortable poses for anilingus
After warming up with kissing, hugging, your favourite kind of caressing, the receiving party should assume a comfortable position to perform anilingus.
Of course, you can engage in this type of sex in any position that allows access to the anus. However, the most comfortable are as follows:
- Lying on your back. The receiving partner lies on his back, bends his legs at the knees, then pulls them up to his chest. Access to the receiving partner's anus can easily be facilitated by placing a pad or roller under the hips. The affection-giving partner lies on his stomach and begins stimulation.
- He/she tilts forward. When choosing this position, the passive partner should lean forward, spread his legs slightly. The lover who gives affection kneels from behind or sits in a comfortable position.
- Knee-elbow position. The most comfortable position for anal stimulation. The receiving party kneels, bends his arms at the elbows, exposing his ass to the active partner. The latter, in turn, should kneel down. For better access to the anus, the lover's buttocks can be slightly spread apart with the hands.
- 69. This position is used not only for simultaneous oral sex, but also for simultaneous anilingus. Of course, in order to accept the original position, lovers must have some flexibility. Having managed to get into the right position, both lovers will experience many unforgettable moments.
- After choosing a convenient position to perform anilingus, remember that:
- All actions should be performed slowly and smoothly, gradually increasing the rhythm.
- Start caresses from the buttocks, thighs, perineum, slowly descending to the anus. Waiting for the main caresses - excites you, makes you tremble with each new touch.
- You can arouse erogenous places with kissing, licking, light massage. The main tools of this sexual practice are the tongue and the lips. The tip of the tongue caresses not only the outer, but also the inner side of the anus.
There is nothing complicated about the technique of anilingus. Such caresses are similar to cunnilingus, only they are much easier to perform and the mouth does not tire as quickly. All you have to do is perform various movements with your tongue. What exactly? This will be suggested by the fantasy that 'lives' during the process.
When performing rimming, you must keep in mind that only a small number of people experience an orgasm from this stimulation. You can help your partner survive a series of unforgettable moments by stimulating other erogenous sites in parallel.
Tips for rimming a girl
- caresses of the anus should be combined with stimulation of the clitoris;
- to enhance the sensations, it is best to caress the delicate intimate organs of the damsel with the fingers;
- when alternating anal and vaginal caresses, remember safety: do not let the tongue caress the anus to the vagina.
Tips for rimming a guy
- first make sure that your man is not averse to such caresses, because some guys are prejudiced against anything to do with anal sex;
- it is best to start anilingus with oral sex;
- gradually involve the testicles, scrotum, perineum, frenulum between the penis and anus in sexual play;
- once the opening of the anus has been reached, start gently stroking the ring of the anus with the tongue;
- gradually increase the pressure force on the anus, working not only with the tip, but also with the entire surface of the tongue;
- to give your boyfriend a strong sexual experience, try combining caressing the anus with a blowjob;
- in the process of rimming, you can caress the manhood with playful fingers;
- gentle strokes can be replaced by bolder actions - insert the tongue into the anus hole and perform progressive movements - the man will experience unforgettable moments.
As mentioned earlier, few people finish by anilingus. Therefore, there is no point in licking the anus endlessly, waiting for the lover's body to beat in voluptuous languor. Anilingus can be a prelude to traditional vaginal or anal penetration. If rimming is done to a man, penetration can be performed with a dildo. Many men, despite being silent, are not averse to this version of sexual play.
Many couples who practice anal stroking admit that this type of bedding brings them very close. No surprise there. After all, anilingus allows each other to demonstrate absolute acceptance of a loved one. And this, in turn, proves mutual love.