The anal plug raises many questions. Some say it is closely linked to sodomy and they are right! The plug is a bit like a gateway that leads to many anal sex practices, and the end of the tunnel is sexual fulfillment, well-being or ecstasy...
Today, I'm going to talk to you about sodomy in particular and explain to you why the anal plug has become, in just a few years, an essential sex toy for stimulating anal pleasure .
First of all it is very important to understand that sodomy is not only a story of physical sensations, far from it. This requires mental and emotional preparation , because anal penetration is above all a matter of psychology ...
Everyone has heard the story of a friend who had a bad anal experience, sometimes very painful . It is no coincidence that it hurts, it is because the preparation has been neglected.
No worries ! We are going to explain to you in the smallest details (very naughty…) how to be ready to receive a good wild sodomy without the slightest pain. The anus is stuffed with extremely sensitive nerve endings, they just need to be properly stimulated to achieve an anal orgasm. Believe in my experience, it's much more powerful than a vaginal orgasm or an ejaculation following a classic masturbation...
Tips for a good sodomy
The cool thing in all this is that the preparation for sodomy is rather simple and very pleasant to set up in the couple. You just need to know a few little tricks (we could almost say grandmother's tricks, but hey…) that will transform your relationship with anal sex and strengthen the bonds of your relationship with your partner.
A bit of anatomy! The sphincter muscles are very contracted. This is why the anus is always tight . The goal is to relax him as much as possible before considering sodomy, whether through sensual games with the fingers or with sex toys. It is absolutely necessary to relax in this area.
It's not just a question of comfort, it's a question of health . If you don't stretch the muscles of the anus correctly, you could suffer from micro tearing and even cause bleeding (nothing serious, but we are far from anal pleasure!).
I insist on this point, because it is too often forgotten and it is not because you use a quality anal lubricant and in quantity that you can skip the stages of dilation. It takes a little time so you might as well take pleasure during the preparation in order to enjoy better afterwards, the more aroused you will be, the more intense the anal orgasm will be .
How to prepare for sodomy?
As we have seen above, the preparation for sodomy is carried out in two stages, you have to be ready physically, but also psychologically. It's comparable to vaginal intercourse , it is necessary to be very excited to get wet and therefore to have a good time. If you don't feel like it, the vagina doesn't get lubricated, penetration becomes painful and very unpleasant, no pleasure...
Far too many people don't really want to indulge in sodomy , they are "repelled" by anal sex, but they force themselves to please their partner.
very bad idea
On the other hand, if you really want to, but are afraid, then don't worry. You will be able to succeed and practice with much more ease than you imagine, it is mainly a question of desire .
The physical part consists mainly of stimulating the anal erogenous zones and relaxing the muscles that surround the anus. The ideal is to start by sensually stroking your orifice with your fingers (yes, your partner can take care of that…). When you start to feel relaxed and aroused enough, then it's time to use your sex toy, it will help you cum easily.
Using an anal plug before anal sex
The standard size anal plug is the perfect sex toy to dilate the anus before anal sex. The tapered shape gently stretches the sphincter muscles and prepares the buttocks for something bigger. Nothing prevents you from going a little further with larger sex toys such as an XXL anal plug or a large anal dildo.
However, it is not recommended to use a toy larger than your partner's penis (sodomy may go unnoticed…). In any case, the penis should never appear in the buttocks before the sex toy, it's the best way to go too fast and leave with a bad experience.
You must have total confidence in your partner and you must be certain that he will be gentle and attentive to your feelings. If you feel comfortable, then you can ask him to step up a gear and even be a little rougher if you feel like it.
Let's not forget one of the crucial points when using a plug before anal sex and when practicing anal sex in general. The lubricant! You have to lubricate your anus from the start when you start playing with your fingers and be generous with the quantity, because there is never too much. It is possible to use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant depending on the type of plug you are using.
You understood, anal sex is not easy and it requires a little work on your part, but anal orgasm is really worth it... It would be a shame to miss it...
What should I do after anal?
The first time you get sodomized , it is possible (but not mandatory) that you feel a little discomfort inside your buttocks or in your lower abdomen. It's because you are not used to receiving a foreign body in the anus, your body needs some time to adapt and there is nothing more normal.
There are little tricks to feel much better in no time!
The best solution ? Run yourself a good bath of hot water and relax, your body will relax on its own and the discomfort will quickly disappear. You will then feel a deep feeling of fullness , this is an emotion that usually appears half an hour after the end of anal intercourse.
Sodomy can spice up the relationship of a couple, you will feel closer to your companion after sharing such emotions and it will be reciprocal. Remember to stay physically close after sex and discuss together any improvements you can make for next time or new experiences you could try together.
Communication should have a big place in your sex life, don't hesitate to share your emotions, it could be the key to happiness...