"Everything is in our hands!" - the well-known expression takes on a very special meaning when it comes to fingering. Skilled fingering can work miracles, giving sexual novelty, sharpness and radiance.
Fingering is a type of sexual technique in which only the fingers are used to please the partner. At first sight, the description of this sexual practice seems innocent enough. In fact, fingering can be both a 'warm-up' and a 'main course' on a sexual menu. After all, your fingers have so many incredible possibilities!
Diteggiatura: definizione del termine
Fingering comes from the English word fingering, where finger is a finger. Literally, the word translates as 'finger action'. In simple terms, fingering is a way of achieving sexual pleasure or arousal of the genitals or anus with the fingers.
Sexual play with fingers can include either gentle pressure and caressing of the external genitals, or a detailed study of the hidden areas in the female uterus.
Finger play can be considered part of masturbation if only the partner's fingers are used to produce sexual release. It can be used before intercourse to arouse the body, afterwards to prolong the moment of pleasure, rather than for sexual release.
When is fingering appropriate?
- The beloved is tired and realises he is unable to engage in traditional sex, but at the same time is not averse to pleasing his beloved. In this case, fingering is the perfect means to elevate your partner to the height of sexual madness.
- You have to get into the right mood. Light and gentle touches of the fingers in the erogenous places will fill the body with a pleasant languor, leading to the main sexual action. You can even start a finger game while watching your favourite series. And then not a single charmer will stray from intimacy.
- The lady of the heart after stormy and quick sex has not had time to get her portion of pleasure. If a man has finished and the young lady has not had an orgasm, you can use your fingers. Vivid sexual experiences are guaranteed!
- I want new, unusual sensations. The fact is that the sensitive places are 'hidden' in the depths of the female womb. Very often, in the process of traditional sex, they are ignored, because the male genital organ does not reach them. The deft fingers of a loved one will easily correct the situation. They will find and arouse intimate places, the stimulation of which will provide exciting experiences. If a boy wants new sensations, a girl can touch the anus. Many men are aroused by such caresses, even if they do not admit it.
But sometimes no special reason is needed to pamper your loved one with fingering. Because it feels so good! Therefore, secluded in bed, practise the delicate fingerplay more often.
Variety of fingering
The fingering can be:
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Genital
It includes caressing the external and internal genital organs of the vaginal area. You can influence the intimate organs not only with your index and middle finger, but also with your thumb. It is convenient to stimulate the particularly sensitive upper part of the vagina with the thumb. The presence of a natural limiter - the palm - allows you not to worry that your partner in a fit of passion will insert his finger too deeply inside.
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Anal
Stimulation of the anus. Such caresses can be combined with influences on the intimate organs of the perineum, causing a storm of pleasant sensations in the body of the loved one. For simultaneous stimulation of the anus and vagina, it is necessary to use the fingers of two hands. Or have very long, flexible fingers.
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Oral
Caressing with the fingers of the mouth, with penetration into the mouth itself, of a lover or mistress. It can be used in conjunction with kissing. Oral fingering can be performed with one, two or four fingers. It all depends on personal preferences and passions.
In the process of fingering, sexual pleasure can be delivered not only with the fingers, but also with the toes. This practice is called toing - from the English word 'toeing' - stimulation with the toes. Very often, the fingers of the lower limbs caress the vulva. Particularly eccentric charms derive acute pleasure from the process of dipping the toe into the vagina. Caresses of this kind require perfect foot hygiene on the part of the partner.
Fingering characteristics
Fingerplay is an exciting sexual game. Both partners will only receive many positives if all precautions are taken when performing the practices. So, when you start fingering, remember:
- Nails should be cut short and have smooth, rounded edges. It should be clear that intimate and tender places are quite sensitive to the slightest bumps and protrusions. A well-groomed area around the nails is a small but important detail.
- Hands must be washed thoroughly. At first glance, fingering is a fairly innocent activity that allows you to get a portion of pleasure in any secluded corner. However, it must be remembered that spontaneous fingering without proper hand hygiene can cause inflammation in the vagina. It is necessary to monitor the cleanliness not only of the hands, but also of the places under the nails.
- Lubrication will facilitate the process of penetration of the fingers into the vagina, making clitoral stimulation pleasurable. At the beginning of sexual play, natural lubrication for the effective gliding of fingers over intimate areas may not be sufficient. In order not to damage the delicate female sites, it is best to use a lubricant.
You can caress the intimate areas in various ways. The most common and effective movements:
- Stroking: include gentle touching of erogenous areas, different pressures.
- Rubbing - fingertips should rub the erogenous zones.
- Pressing - with fingertips, pressure is applied to the most sensual erogenous areas.
- Pinching - with pinches of varying strength, intimate areas are massaged.
- Touching - with fingertips, as well as with the palm of the hand, erogenous zones are touched.
- Pulling - slight pulling of the skin at erogenous places.
Where exactly to apply this or that movement depends solely on the partner's imagination and his desire to please his beloved. Believe me, even a gentle pinch of the clitoris will bring frenzied pleasure to the charmer.
Fingering rules
First of all, you have to take a good pose. It can:
- Sit down and spread your legs to the sides. The wider it is, the easier it is to caress intimate places, which means that the sensations will be more enchanting. This position is quite straightforward. If you are embarrassed to sit like this, choose a less provocative position.
- Lie on your back, spread your lower limbs slightly. In this position, it is convenient for a partner to caress different erogenous zones. There is an opportunity to combine exciting finger play with gentle kissing.
- Turn your back to the man, bend your legs slightly at knee height. In this position, the lover will be able to cover your neck, your back with kisses, pay attention to your chest. You will not be able to kiss, but your partner will reach all the hot spots.
When it comes to fingering, it is worth realizing that each spellcaster is unique. Therefore, what one likes may not please another. In order not to miscalculate with stroking, a man must ask a woman about her preferences. Ideally, ask her to show herself. After addressing what you like, it is worth clarifying what you cannot. In this practice, it is communication that helps to significantly improve the quality of sexual life.
