Almost all men are not averse to diversifying their sex life with anal intercourse. But when they declare their desire to a friend in intimate jest, they face categorical rejection. This happens because many women believe that anal sex is pure pain and discomfort, only a man can experience pleasure with this type of penetration.
In fact, not everything is as sad as many women think, focusing on their friends' stories, their own sad experience and what they write on women's portals. Not only a man plunging his penis into a tight anus opening can experience moments of pleasure, but also a woman herself, exposing her ass to such an attack. Indeed, with proper positioning of the accents, careful penetration, and play with the anus, a woman can experience a powerful orgasm.
Anal sex: an unusual type of intimacy
Anal sex is a variation of sexual intercourse that takes place through the introduction of a male member into a woman's anus. Around this type of intimate act, there is an enormous amount of controversy and disagreement. Most of the discussion is led by women. After all, they are the host, experiencing discomfort during illiterate intercourse.
Not all women are prejudiced against the anal option of obtaining sexual pleasure. Some say anal sex is a perversion, a sexual act performed by fallen women. Others secretly dream of trying this version of bed comforts. Third, they are never ready for the pain that accompanies anal penetration. Meanwhile, men are thinking about how to convince a girl to give up the 'backside' defence.
Statistics state that:
- 95% of boys dream of anal penetration;
- 46% of gentlemen, when choosing between anal and vaginal sex, prefer the former;
- 40% of representatives of the beautiful half of humanity are ready to do anal.
Still pondering the question "To give or not to give?". Are curiosity and fear competing in your head? Then read our article. You will realise that with the right preparation, the technique to perform anal penetration, not only a man, but also a woman can experience incomparable pleasure.
From the moment a man and a woman, going to bed, started having sex not only to conceive children, but also to enjoy it, everything the imagination suggests can be done in the bedroom. Today, both a man and a woman can offer a sexual experiment. It must be kept in mind that this behaviour is quite agreeable to gentlemen. A woman who is not afraid of anything new, offering to try something interesting herself, shows that you will not be bored in bed with her.
Therefore, any woman who dreams of trying this kind of penetration on herself should boldly tell her lover. Believe me, your friend will be incredibly happy to hear such a statement. After all, very often a man is silent about his desire to conquer a lovely female ass, he is afraid of offending a girl or feeling rejection. According to the ubiquitous statistics, 95 per cent of the charmers categorically refuse to have anal sex. Why do women reject this intimacy option? Here are the main reasons:
- Fear the pain and discomfort that accompany penetration.
- They don't want to seem too accessible.
- I think they will not look aesthetically pleasing, exposing the anus for show.
Therefore, the task of a man and a woman who want to diversify their sexual enjoyment with the help of anal sex is, first of all, to talk about this variant of intimacy. When deciding to try it, carefully study the rules of preparation and the technique for performing anal penetration.
Anal sex - Orgasm guaranteed
Modern scientists have discovered that the area around the anus is characterised by high sensitivity.
They provide interesting data on the number of nerve receptors per 1 cm2 of various erogenous areas. Thus:
- vagina - 90 units
- G-spot - 300 units;
- anus - 450 units;
- clitoris - 8,000 units;
- the area around the anus opening - 72,000 units.
Looking at the pictures, it is easy to see that stimulation of the anus area, as well as the process of penetration, can turn into vivid sexual experiences for a young woman. The main thing is to correctly perform all manipulations that precede and accompany anal sex. Add here the experiences of maximum intimacy with your man, absolute trust between the partners, submission to the male will. And you will realise that the anal orgasm can be much stronger than the usual clitoral and vaginal.
Learning to have an anal orgasm
There are many more sensual places in the body of enchanters. These are the nipples, the clitoris and the inside of the vagina, i.e. the back wall where the infamous G-spot is located. Thus, during anal sex, this particular erogenous zone is stimulated, because of which a woman can experience acute pleasure. Another feature that helps a woman survive an orgasm from anal penetration is a highly sensitive area around the anus. As are the caresses of the clitoris, which a man can perform while enjoying anal sex. As you can see, anal intercourse has all the necessary components for a powerful female orgasm.
Expert advice will help you get real pleasure from unconventional penetration from behind. So, remember the simple rules of anal sex:
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Pay attention to the preparation
Long and tender foreplay is a component of intimacy that brings emotional and physical sexual release. Foreplay is important for a traditional act, but for anal contact it is simply necessary. It is the sexual games that will help the chosen one relax as much as possible, tuning in for painless penetration. Sexual foreplay can begin with regular massage generously flavoured with erotic caresses. Particular attention should be paid to the erogenous zones, the stimulation of which will immerse the body in a vortex of pleasant sensations.
When the partner is fully aroused, the man can move on to massage the anus. All you have to do at this time is to lightly caress the anus ring, press lightly on it and then try to insert your finger inside. Remember, all actions must be performed slowly and unhurriedly. At this point, you must carefully observe the lady's reactions. If she makes passionate moans, then everything suits her. You can safely continue to conquer the anus. Instead of a finger, you can use a dildo or another sexual device suitable for such games.
Ideally, the first penetration should be done with a dildo, trying to insert a member after a few days. A sex toy will help prepare the anus for penetration and allow you to experience a minimum of pain when inserting the penis.
There is a simple way to make anal sex less uncomfortable: experience double penetration. To do this, at the moment the penis plunges into the wet female uterus, insert one or more fingers into the anus. For a woman, this sexual practice option is painless. On the contrary, it brings new, previously unknown experiences. This is due to the fact that in the process of double penetration there is a narrowing of the vagina. Consequently, the walls of the vagina are in close contact with each other, involving in the intimate process all the erogenous areas hidden in the maiden's breasts. Therefore, this intimacy option gives the young woman a powerful orgasm. If the beloved enjoyed double penetration, it is easier for her to adapt to anal sex.
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usa anilingus
Anilingus is a variant of oral sex, which is subject to the anus. The main weapons of anilingus can be called tongue and lips. You can caress the anus in various ways: licking, kissing, pressing your tongue on the area around the hole, inserting your tongue into the anus. You can blow your lips on the anus, causing many pleasant sensations in your partner's body. In addition, it should be borne in mind that the lips folded into a 'tube' expel fresh air, wide open - warm. This function allows you to significantly expand the option of stroking the anus.
Anilingus is considered by many not to be the most aesthetic option for caressing. This opinion is wrong. If you prepare yourself properly, both partners will experience unforgettable moments. All that is needed is to thoroughly clean the anus before anilingus with the help of an anal shower.
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Don't skimp on lubricant
Lubricant is an indispensable accessory for anal intercourse. It must be kept in mind that the inside of the anus lacks natural lubrication. It is only in the vagina, and it is she who makes vaginal penetration pleasant and comfortable. For painless penetration into the female ass opening, it is necessary to use a lubricant. In this case, the more the better.
When choosing the right product, keep in mind that special lubricants are produced for anal sex. They have a thick consistency, which reduces friction between the surface of the intimate organs during penetration. Consequently, an intimate experiment for the receiving end will pass without any problems. The anal passage will not be threatened by ruptures, cracks and other injuries that are treated for a very long and difficult time.
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Do everything very slowly.
Anal sex: it does not tolerate hurry and bustle. It cannot be enjoyed quickly when your body is gripped by passion and lust and you want to merge with your loved one in a passionate dance at all costs. Anal requires serious preparation and does not start behind closed bedroom doors. It is best to plan such sex to have time to tune in, relax, enjoy the process.
In the process of the act itself, it is important to perform all movements as smoothly as possible. Do not rush to fully insert the member into the hole. At the beginning of the process, manhood is only introduced to a shallow depth. After that, the man must pull it out and immerse it again, but already at a great depth. By gradually increasing the depth of penetration of the penis, you save your friend from pain in the penetration process.
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Pay attention to the clitoris
Although the main character of anal sex is a lovely female ass, i.e. the hole of a certain passage, no one has forbidden caressing the clitoris. A man must remember that stimulation of this erogenous place will help the young woman relax, distract her from pain, which will make the penetration process less uncomfortable. Therefore, it is necessary to play with a tender intimate site both during passionate foreplay and after the introduction of a member into the female anal passage. Remember, stroking the clitoris will greatly enhance the experience of a friend. Such a double 'attack' will help the woman reach orgasm faster.
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Safety
A man and woman who intend to enjoy anal sex should remember that a penis after visiting the anus should not enter the vagina. This is because bacteria from the anus, when entering the vagina, can cause various inflammatory processes to develop. Therefore, if you plan to have traditional sex after anal sex, use a condom.
And remember, it is best to have anal sex with a reliable and trustworthy partner.
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Breathe
Correct breathing will help make the process of penetrating the penis into the narrow opening of the anus less uncomfortable. Learning to breathe correctly is quite simple. You must remember two simple rules: when the male spear dives into the hole, you must exhale, when it comes back in - inhale.
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Girl's reaction
A man's task in the anal sex process is to carefully monitor his girlfriend's reactions, respond clearly to her requests and comments. If the young woman cannot relax, take the cock accordingly, there is no need to rape her and stick the device in her ass. Remember: violent anal sex can cause not only damage to the walls of the rectum, internal bleeding, but also death.
Anal sex positions: success and efficiency of penetration
Proficient anal sex for both partners can provide bright, unforgettable and incomparable experiences. To experience a powerful orgasm, it is necessary not only to prepare properly for this version of sexual play and to warm up well. It is important to choose the right position for intimacy, to choose a comfortable angle of penetration in the narrow opening of the anus. And then intimacy will necessarily end with a loud female orgasm.
The most convenient and safest positions to conquer the female anus can be called:
- "Reverse rider". The man lies on his back. The girl sits on top, with her back to her partner. In this position, the woman herself controls each stage of penetration, controls the speed of friction, and chooses the angle of entry of the penis. A man, in order to enhance his girlfriend's experience, can take an appetising female ass in his arms, caressing her luscious buttocks. If he decides to assume a lying position, he can reach the focus of female sensuality: the clitoris. Thus, she will be able to give the charmer many exciting moments.
- "Spoons". To assume this position, lovers lie on their side, the woman with her back to the man. This position is suitable not only for vaginal but also anal penetration. Interestingly, the particularity of the position of women's legs influences the experiences of the charmer. Thus by fully extending the legs, the young woman will experience less discomfort during intercourse. Because in this case, the male penis will not rest against the wall of the intestine. Using the trial method, you can easily select the most comfortable and pleasant position for penetration.
- "Snake movements". The woman lies on her stomach with her legs slightly apart. The man sits on top. At the same time, his legs should be closed. After inserting his penis into the opening of the anus, he starts to perform alternative movements. This position is convenient because the manhood moves from top to bottom. This causes minimal discomfort in the body of the beloved.
This is a list of the easiest, most convenient and comfortable positions for anal stimulation. But this does not mean that it is impossible to have anal sex in the doggy-style, knee-elbow and even standing position.
To choose the best, you should try everything. In the process, focusing on your own tastes and preferences, choose the most comfortable and safest position for painless and pleasurable penetration.