Masturbation is a process of self-satisfaction, which brings the body to orgasm without the participation of a second person. There are many different techniques used for self-excitation of the intimate areas. However, the power of orgasm does not depend on them alone. A comfortable and relaxing environment is the key to maximum sexual arousal.
In modern society, as well as in ancient times, there was a dual attitude towards onanism. Obtaining pleasure from sexual pleasures in which two people participate is a normal phenomenon. Achieving sexual satisfaction without a friend is indecent.
From time immemorial, masturbation alone was considered completely normal. Others were very categorical about this method of sexual discharge. They considered it a variant of perversion. All those who practised masturbation were classified as sinners.
Even in the recent past, a woman who amused herself alone was considered a deep loser. There was a view that young women who did not have a permanent partner were engaged in masturbation. Modern sexologists confidently dispute this view. They claim that 80 per cent of spellbinders engage in self-satisfaction periodically, 45 per cent of women do it all the time. Apparently, it is not loneliness that drives women 'down the road to vice', but completely different reasons: the desire to obtain innocent pleasure, relieve stress and tension.
In fact, masturbation is a normal phenomenon in which men and women begin to engage as early as adolescence. Masturbation helps adolescents to get to know their bodies, to understand what brings them joy and pleasure. Over time, when intimacy becomes part of daily life, many stop masturbating. While others continue to receive sexual pleasure in this way. It should be clear that self-satisfaction is not a danger to the psyche and health. Of course, if it does not damage a fully-fledged intimate life. The main thing is to maintain hygiene and observe safety.
Masturbation can be part of traditional sexual intercourse or can serve as a complete substitute for it. This way of getting aroused and having fun can be part of an exciting foreplay. Masturbation will help prepare the body for the main action: vaginal or anal penetration. Then the pleasure of sex will be much greater.
Sometimes it happens that the man has already finished and the lady has not yet had time to get her portion of spicy pleasure. What to do? Start plotting revenge? Of course not. Masturbation is a way out of this situation, a chance for a lady of the heart to get closer to the moment of true happiness.
Many men love to watch their girlfriend masturbate. They have the opportunity to get excited faster, to understand which caresses bring real pleasure to the charmer. Very often, women masturbate simply to relax and relieve accumulated sexual energy.
What is the advantage of masturbation for women?
Masturbation should be considered a way to achieve acute sexual pleasure. By making the process of self-satisfaction a part of daily life, a woman saves herself from a number of problems:
- Prevention of diseases of the female genital organs and hormonal disorders. Regular sexual life, even if it is built on the principles of self-satisfaction, excludes the possibility of stagnant processes in the pelvic organs, promotes pain-free periods. Masturbation causes sexual arousal, helps to survive orgasm, acts as a good alternative to traditional sex in the absence of a friend in bed.
- Prevention of diseases of the cardiovascular system. In the process of masturbation, excitement covers the entire body, blood boils in the veins, a healthy flush appears on the cheeks, and pleasure hormones are produced in the body. As a result, the heart rate increases, the blood pressure rises, which has a beneficial effect on general well-being.
- Get rid of stress, sleep interruptions, chronic apathy. The sexual rush enriches the body with beneficial hormones. It invigorates, causes a feeling of satisfaction. As a result, mood improves, sleep improves, appetite increases, sleep normalizes.
- Masturbation is safe sex. Than seeking partners to relieve sexual tension, it is better to do masturbation. With this method of satisfaction, it is simply impossible to get pregnant, as well as to get an STD.
- A chance to get to know your own body better. In the process of masturbation, you can caress not only your genitals, perineum, but also your chest, stomach and play with other tender spots. Knowing and understanding your desires allows you to build a sex life full of only pleasant impressions. Such a charmer will be able to explain to his lover what he expects from intimacy and, if necessary, show him. Men, as you know, love free and active partners. Do you want to be the perfect lover? Develop your sexuality. It is masturbation that will help in this.
As you can see, masturbation is not at all detrimental to health; on the contrary, there is an ongoing benefit from this method of obtaining pleasure.
Preparing for the self-satisfaction process
One must prepare oneself not only for sex with a partner, but also for independent caresses of oneself. Girls are gentle creatures, so the details - smells, appearance, environment - are of great importance to obtain pleasure. Masturbation in a pleasant environment will bring much more pleasure than hasty attempts in a stale bathrobe. So let us begin:
- Outward appearance. Even alone with yourself, you must look beautiful and seductive. Prepare yourself for an intimate adventure, take care of an intimate haircut, beautiful lingerie, waxing, manicure and pedicure. These procedures can be turned into the masturbation phase, where they act as a kind of prelude to the main action: the process of self-satisfaction. By taking care of yourself, by enjoying the sight of your own body, you can get very excited. You will wait for the caress of tender places as salvation.
- Entourage. Remember, caressing yourself in a comfortable and pleasant environment is much more enjoyable. Preparing the right atmosphere is quite easy. Examine the room in which you will do it. Little things like fresh flowers, candles, soft music, a glass of good wine, sweets, a relaxing bath - anything that cheers you up will help you create the right atmosphere, which means you can relax faster. For maximum relaxation, you can create an erotic scenario for a sexual adventure. And then at the end of the path you are sure to experience a powerful orgasm.
- Romantic prelude. Start the process of self-satisfaction with play with the upper erogenous zones. With delicate fingers, run along the neck, walk down the chest, touch the stomach, slowly descending to the perineum. Don't rush to touch the most sensual places. Play with the groin area. It brings the body to sexual frenzy, to languor, when there is no more strength to bear. It is then that touching the intimate organs will cause a storm of joy in the body, which will overthrow the wet flow of an all-consuming orgasm.
Masturbation: poses that will drive you crazy
Even if you are not engaged in masturbation for the first time, this does not mean that you have nothing to learn. Experiments in bed, both in the process of traditional sex and in the self-satisfaction phase, allow you to discover new facets of pleasure. The female arousal process and the orgasm itself depend on various components: age characteristics, monthly cycle, psycho-emotional state, etc. And what you did not enjoy yesterday can bring indescribable pleasure today. Even if you have an advantageous way of bringing yourself into a sexual frenzy, never deny yourself the chance to try something new.
In female masturbation, there are several main ways to influence the erogenous zones:
- Hand impact. The simplest but most effective way to bring the body to orgasm. With this method, the clitoris, vagina, labia minora and nearby areas are stroked. When choosing this method of stimulation, remember that your hands must be absolutely clean. To improve the sliding of the fingers in the intimate areas, you can use a lubricant.
- internal penetration. This is performed with the help of special sexual devices: a dildo, a vibrator. With this method of arousal, the inner part of the vagina, the G-spot, is affected. Today, modern manufacturers offer a wide selection of sex toys. They can be made of different materials, have a lot of additional functions, different sizes, designs. From such an assortment, every charmer will easily choose the most comfortable device to use, capable of giving new sensations.
- Water impact. With this method of sexual discharge, the process of self-satisfaction takes place in the bathroom. Masturbation in the shower is an effective method. The water jet purposefully acts on the nerve endings located in the clitoral area, causing rapid sexual arousal and discharge. The important thing is not to apply too much pressure, which can cause unpleasant rather than pleasant sensations. With this method of self-satisfaction, the water jet should not be directed directly into the vagina, as the natural lubrication could be washed away. This threatens to disrupt the internal microflora of the genital organs.
- Vacuum stimulation. Innovative devices that recreate the sweet sucking sensations that a lover gives during cunnilingus are used to arouse intimate places. they are called womanizers or satisfying. In a sex shop, it is easy to choose an attractively designed device, whether in the shape of a duck, penguin or abstract fantasy, such a toy can bring sexual climax in a matter of minutes. Suitable for women who have no time for romantic foreplay.
The best positions for masturbation
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Missionary
This position is considered the easiest and most comfortable. With this method to achieve pleasure, a woman needs to lie on the bed, on her back, spread her legs slightly and start exciting games with her erogenous zones. You can act on sensitive spots either with your hands or with a vibrator. Choose what is most convenient for you to 'work on'. In the process of stimulation, carefully control your sensations, reducing or increasing the process of influencing your sensitive spots. The advantage of the missionary position for personal pleasure is that you can enjoy it even if you live with your parents. Sitting comfortably under the covers, you can play with your intimate areas as much as you want without attracting attention.
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On the chair
This option is suitable for lovers of extreme sports. All you have to do is choose a stable chair with a backrest. To protect it from falling, it must be placed close to the wall. After you have made yourself comfortable, lean against the back of the chair, spread your legs as wide as possible and start the stimulation. The feet for a stable body position can be wrapped around the legs of the chair. In this position, it is convenient to use various stimulants and vibrators. They will help you achieve the most pleasant sensations. This position will appeal to any charmer, as it becomes possible to reach your intimate places without unnecessary difficulty, rather than lying on your back. To enhance the sensations, the chair on which you masturbate can be placed in front of a mirror. By observing your actions, you will be able to become stronger and faster.
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Horseman
Sex alone is no reason to give up your favourite cowgirl position. After all, you can saddle not only your loved one, but also the cushion or armrest of your favorite chair. If you choose an armrest of upholstered furniture for sex play, don't forget to cover it with a soft sheet or blanket. Then sit comfortably on your chosen 'horse' and start moving slowly. By choosing such a position, a woman expands her area of influence, thereby enhancing sexual sensations. Not only the clitoris, but the entire genital area will rub against the pillow or armrest. You can move back and forth, describe circles and intricate figures with buds. Do not limit your imagination. Do whatever your intuition tells you, and then a glowing orgasm will not keep you waiting. To enhance the experience, use your fingers, various sexual devices.
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On the increase
A pose that is simple to perform will provide you with an unforgettable experience. Before starting sexual play with your clitoris, you should sit comfortably on the bed face down. Place a pillow under your abdomen, thus slightly raising your pelvic area. Your legs should be bent at the knees for comfort. They will thus support the weight of the body, creating the most comfortable conditions for genital stimulation. You can excite the tender spots hidden between the legs with your fingers or a vibration stimulator.
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Star
The pose will allow you to experience many of the most pleasurable sexual moments. Getting into the star pose is quite easy. Choose a surface on which you can kneel, such as a bed or a very soft carpet. Now spread your knees as wide as possible and start stroking your perineum, genitals and other erogenous zones. For stability with your back, you can lean on an upright surface or one of your hands. In this position, it is quite comfortable to use sex toys. This will maximize the sensations.
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In the shower
Masturbation with a water jet is an ancient and very popular way to obtain pleasure among women. Achieving the desired sensations is quite simple. All you have to do is direct the water jet to sensual places. Keep an eye on the temperature of the water you use. Choose the most pleasant one. However, before you start the game, make yourself comfortable in the bathroom. If you decide to stand during masturbation, lean your back against the wall. Raise one leg for the comfort of stimulation and place it on the side of the bathtub. You can caress your genitals not only with water, but also with your fingers, a vibrator. We guarantee that the combination of these techniques will allow you to climb to the top of sexual bliss. When choosing a water toy, choose one that is water-resistant.
Never limit yourself to a particular posture. By experimenting in bed, you will find a position that will bring maximum sexual release. Remember, successful masturbation is not just about the right position, competent caresses, but also an attractive environment, a beautiful body.