Kissing, making love, is there really a difference between these expressions? In general, we often hear that fucking is worse than making love. To make love is to have sexual relations with feelings, to kiss, that would amount to having relations for the simple purpose of taking pleasure or even of preferring a more bestial relationship. Aren't these ways of having a sexual relationship compatible?
This is a question that is often asked, but it is difficult to find an answer that suits everyone. In a couple, there may be times when the desire to kiss is stronger than that of making love and vice versa (depending on the definition that we put behind these terms, by opposing bestial sex and vanilla sex for example). Everyone can bring their own definition behind these expressions, the goal is quite simply that it suits both partners.
Making love and fucking, aren't they the same thing?
There are many injunctions behind the terms kiss ? and make love ?. Yet ultimately both refer to having sex with one or another partner. Kiss would be dirty? Making love would be beautiful and luminous? In the end, who can say what is hidden behind these terms if not the meaning that we want to put there. For example, we can start from the principle that the term kiss applies to sexual relations that are a little more violent, a little more brutal, while making love would amount to practicing missionary by whispering words of love to each other.
This definition will not suit everyone and everyone would like to modify it. Fuck, make love, do what you want as long as the relationship is consensual and it gives you pleasure! No one has to judge your sexual practices, if you think you fuck and you like it, continue like this! If, on the contrary, you like vanilla sex and making love, tenderly and lovingly, continue, you are just as right! If for you, fucking and making love are not incompatible, if you can fuck and love the person you are with and vice versa, then continue too!
Make love when you love, fuck without feelings
If you don't have to fuck anymore, then you have to make love? But isn't making love a sexual relationship between two people who love each other? However, it is not obligatory to have feelings for the person with whom you have sex. You can have fun with someone you'll never see again, or with someone you see regularly just for sex. It could be a friend or someone you're not really close to.
It doesn't change the fact that you are having sex with her and enjoying it. The terms kiss and make love don't mean much, again everyone puts behind these words the definitions they want, it will be difficult to have a dialogue with another person about this or a debate where someone can win. It is interesting to exchange and note the differences that everyone places behind the words kiss and make love. However, this should not prevent you from using the terms you prefer to define the sexual relationship you have with another person. You can absolutely have sex with the person who has shared your life for 10 years, just as you can have sex with your partner whom you met 3 days ago.