If you ask the question point-blank: a husband or a vibrator? Definitely a husband. And not because he makes you coffee in the morning, because sex is best with him. With a man, the sexual pleasures are much more interesting, even if the sex toys are more powerful and long-lasting.
For mental and physical health, every woman needs sex. Most girls do not experience orgasm during intercourse with a man for whom there is no love. For women, the presence of emotional attachment is of great importance. For men, sex without love is the norm (there are exceptions). It is possible that this is female psychology and 'women have an orgasm in their head', but physiology in this case is of great importance.
Vibrators with bizarre shapes and those very similar to a male penis will not give you pleasure from the process, due to the lack of a so-called orgasmic cuff. It occurs in the plateau phase (the period of sexual arousal before the onset of orgasm), when the vagina swells due to the influx of blood and tightly envelops the male organ. Over time, the vagina adapts to the penis. This can be compared to the way people in a relationship adapt to each other's character. The formation of the orgasmic cuff occurs in regular sexual partners. Consequently, most women who do not have a permanent sexual partner do not experience orgasm. And only with the advent of a permanent man do they begin to receive an orgasmic discharge.
Of course, if you constantly use a dildo, a realist and not a vibrator, a cuff will also form. Hygiene must be remembered here. The dildo must be changed once a year.
Marital sex sometimes needs new impressions and emotions. You can try the 'trio' - you, the husband, the vibrator. This will spice up your sex life. But you should not have this kind of sex every day, the sensations will become boring, become mundane, and health problems are possible.
Very often, women who do not reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse turn to a sexologist. The sexual history shows that a woman has her own way of masturbating, which was set in adolescence or later. Perhaps it is a vibrator, or she is experiencing pleasure from a shower jet, or from squeezing her pelvic muscles. Experiencing these sensations already during intercourse with a man, and even simulating the clitoris with your fingers, will not work. The difference between a vibrator and a male finger is undeniable. The impressions are not the same. The body is used to responding to a particular way of achieving ecstasy that is an obstacle to forming another habit.
Small details
There are little things that will not allow you to treat a delicate device with the same passion as a living man:
- The male phallus is hot when erect, but the vibrator is cold.
- You will not be able to relax and enjoy yourself completely, because you have to constantly adapt to this soulless machine.
- If you like oral sex, you probably won't like the taste of rubber. Taste sensations should also be taken into account when using a vibrator (dildo) in couple play, separating a husband in one direction, a sex toy in another.
- And he won't cook breakfast in bed and, in general, he doesn't care if it's good or bad, he works stupidly. No rubber phallus can replace a strong male shoulder. The best sex is having sex with your husband.
